Winter Break
As winter break approaches, it’s an excellent opportunity for children and families to pause, reconnect, and recharge. While the holiday season often brings excitement, it can also bring challenges, including stress, loneliness, or feeling overwhelmed. Here are a few tips to help prioritize mental well-being during this time:
1. Maintain a Routine with Flexibility
Breaks are for relaxation, but having a loose structure to the day can create a sense of balance. Include time for play, rest, and family connection.
2. Encourage Open Conversations
Make space to check in with your children about their emotions. Remind them that it’s okay to feel a mix of emotions during this time, whether joy, frustration, or sadness.
3. Foster Connection
Use this time to strengthen bonds with loved ones. Whether through a family meal, game night, or quiet moments together, meaningful connection can have a positive impact on mental health.
4. Set Realistic Expectations
The holidays don’t have to be perfect. Focus on simple joys rather than pressure for everything to go exactly as planned.
5. Prioritize Self-Care for All
Help children understand the importance of self-care by modeling it yourself. Whether it’s reading, taking a walk, or practicing mindfulness, these habits can build resilience.
6. Recognize Signs of Stress
Be mindful of behavioral changes that may signal stress, such as difficulty sleeping, changes in appetite, or withdrawal. If needed, reach out to a counselor, teacher, or trusted professional for support.
7. Unplug and Be Present
While technology is great for entertainment, try to balance screen time with offline activities like crafting, baking, or spending time outdoors.
Winter break is a chance to nurture not just physical rest but also emotional and mental well-being. Let’s support one another in creating a season filled with kindness, warmth, and understanding. Wishing you and your family a restful and joyful winter break!
Warm regards,
Laura Lupo
Mental Health Coordinator

Food Assistance

Bellingham Food Bank
Anyone living in Whatcom county can visit the food bank. You do not need to sign up in advance. For more information, email at info@bellinghamfoodbank.org or call 360-676-0392.
Whatcom County Holiday Food and Meal Guide
Bellingham Community Holiday Meal
  • Sat, 12/28 @ 10am-12pm | Assumption Gym, 2116 Cornwall Ave.
Maple Alley Inn Harvest Meal at Faith Lutheran Church
  • Th, 12/19 @ 11:30am-1pm | 2750 McLeod Rd.
Bellingham Salvation Army Food Bank – Holiday Foods
  • Tu & Th @ 10am-1pm and Mon @ 1-3pm (seniors only) | 2912 NW Ave.
Ferndale Community Meal at United Church of Ferndale
  • Sat, 12/21 @ 1-5pm | 2034 Washington St., Ferndale
A Watered Garden – Holiday Meal
  • Wed, 12/18 @ 6pm | 700 Strandell St., Everson
Lynden Project Hope Food Bank – Holiday Foods
  • Mon & Fri @ 9:30am-12pm and Tu @ 3-6pm | 205 S BC Ave., Lynden
Little Cheerful Café’s Soup Kitchen
  • November through March, Wed @ 6:30pm | 133 E Holly St., Bellingham
Whatcom Resources
For a more extensive list of resources or other needs visit Whatcom Resources website.

Mental Health Challenges in a Rural Community

Rural communities face unique challenges in maintaining mental wellness due to limited resources and increased isolation. The stigma around mental health conditions is a significant barrier, often seen as personal weakness, adding shame to those struggling. Recognizing mental health conditions as valid health issues, like cancer or diabetes, is crucial. Open conversations about mental health experiences and providing support are essential to reducing stigma and improving mental wellness in rural areas. This website offers a list of mental health resources specifically for rural communities.

Self-Care

While the holidays often bring joy and togetherness, they can also be stressful due to packed schedules, financial pressures, and high expectations. Taking time to rest, reflect, and recharge not only enhances your ability to fully enjoy the season but also ensures you have the energy to get through it. Caring for yourself is not indulgent—it’s necessary and doesn’t have to cost a fortune. What do you do for self-care? Here are some zero to low cost ideas:
  • Movie or TV marathon: Watch free shows or movies on streaming platforms or public libraries.
  • Read: Catch up on books you own or borrow from the library.
  • Host a game night: Play board games, card games, or trivia with family or friends.
  • DIY crafts: Use materials you already have to create holiday decorations or handmade gifts.
  • Bake or cook: Try a new recipe with pantry staples, like homemade bread or cookies.
  • Declutter and reorganize: Tidy up your space for a fresh start to the new year.
  • Write letters or emails: Reconnect with loved ones in a thoughtful, personal way.
  • Host a potluck: Invite friends over and share a meal made with what everyone already has.
  • Volunteer: Help at a local food bank or community center to spread kindness and connection.

Local Events

Saturday, Dec. 7
Elf on a Shelf Scavenger Hunt – Lynden
Pick up a FREE Clue Card on Saturday Dec. 7 at ELF HQ – Corner of Front St. & 5th, Lynden. Find all the elves hiding in businesses in Downtown Lynden & be entered to win one of three baskets filled with downtown business gift cards and treats worth $300. Follow the clues on the card to find the hidden elves! The hunt is from 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Winners will be drawn at 6 p.m.. Elf Hunt HQ closes at 4:15 p.m. Pick up your clue cards before then.
You are invited to explore programs at the Whatcom Family YMCA! Meet program leaders and coaches, learn about current offerings, explore the facility, and discover what’s coming in the new year! Event is 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. at the Whatcom Family YMCA, 1256 N. State Street, Bellingham, WA.
Activities Include: Soccer, T-ball, Girls on the Run Activity, Trail Blazers Relays, Basketball, Adaptive Sports, Family Yoga Class, Climbing Wall, Family Swim (starting at 1 p.m.).
Saturday, Dec. 14
Handmade Holidays
From 12-4 p.m. on Saturday, Dec. 14, LEGO® Master contestant Brad Bergman will supply holiday cheer with custom buildable LEGO® sets. Work with Brad to build a festive LEGO® ornament. Crafts are free! Admission to Old City Hall is by donation through the month of December. Free fun for the whole family!
Jingle Bell Run
Get ready to celebrate the 40th year of Jingle Bell Run, the original festive race for charity brought to you by the Arthritis Foundation on Saturday, Dec. 14. Wear your favorite holiday gear, and let’s jingle all the way toward a cure! Let’s lace up, hit the pavement, and jingle our way toward victory over arthritis!

December Dates

12/1: Rosa Parks Day
12/2: National Special Education Day
12/3: International Day of Persons with Disabilities
12/7: National Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day
12/10: Human Rights Day
12/15: Bill of Rights Day
12/21: Winter Solstice
12/23 – Jan. 3: Winter Break (No School)
12/25: Christmas Day
12/25: Hanukkah begins
12/26 Kwanzaa
12/31: New Year’s Eve
1/1: New Year’s Day
1/6: School Resumes